Sunday, October 26, 2014

Materialism

            When the holidays come around it is a time to have good quality bonding time with your family and give gifts to those that deserve it. After reading both of these short essays about materialistic spending during the holidays, I really liked the first one better. I liked the first one better because it reflects what I think the holidays should represent. The holidays should not be about materialistic spending on objects because by doing so you will condition your kids to expect gifts and ruin the true meaning of the holidays. It will make them spoiled and start to demand pricey clothing because they think that’s what defines them as people. It will hurt them in the long run and make them more susceptive to being lazy or suffer from personality disorders. The holidays should not be the cause of these such bad things but should teach us the true meaning about life. To be grateful for what we have and to appreciate another year with our loved ones. You may bring joy to the person by giving them gifts but you can never replace the happiness that is caused by the presence of your loved ones. The precious moments that you have during the holidays is priceless. They mean way more than any gift that anybody can give me. With that being said I will not subdue to the American way of spending. I will stick to my morals and values that allow me to cherish the holidays as a time to make memories with my loved ones and just enjoy the small things in life that you just can’t put a price on.

8 comments:

  1. I agree that spending more time with family is something we should do more often. The holidays is a special time to spend time with our loved ones.

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  2. I don't think giving presents are such an evil thing, people just shouldn't make buying expensive presents the main focus of the holiday season. I do agree with the last part, making memories with loved ones are what's really important.

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  3. I like your way of thinking. The Holidays should mean more to people than just presents. Yeah sometimes kids just get into the habit of wanting more flamboyant things.

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  4. The American way of consumerism around the holidays is something that just ruins the holidays. The experience is with the family and the times you enjoy together, presents are always a plus but shouldn't be the main reason for holidays.

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  5. I believe that it is still possible to make cherished memories with loved one and still exchange gifts. Presents don't define Christmas, but they do show your appreciation for someone.

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  6. It's true, spending time with your family is better than any present. Even though now Christmas has mainly came to gifts. It's no every day you get together with your family and holidays are the best time to do them.

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  7. Regardless whether I receive a present or not the fact of spending the day with my entire family and having laughs and a good time is all I ask for.

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  8. I also agreed to the first essay. It's a little shocking but it's also kind of true that's why I suggest you should give your future kids gifts only if they truly deserve it.

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